A gentle guide through what comes after
The paperwork of loss,
made gentle.
When someone you love dies, dozens of accounts, forms, and deadlines arrive all at once — while you’re grieving. The After turns that overwhelming pile into a calm, personal plan, and drafts the hardest letters and calls for you.
Free to start · Private to you · Go entirely at your own pace
You didn’t ask for this list.
Bank accounts to close. A death certificate to order — and copies, so many copies. Subscriptions that keep charging. A pension, perhaps. Accounts that still suggest their birthday.
It’s a second full-time job, arriving at the worst possible moment. And most people face it with a stack of tabs, a legal pad, and no idea what’s urgent.
The After holds all of it for you — what to do, who to contact, and by when — so you only ever have to look at the next small step.
How The After helps
Four steps, and never more than one at a time.
Tell us what happened, gently
A short, kind conversation — no forms to decode. Share only what you're ready to, and skip anything you're not.
Get a plan for your situation
A clear, prioritized checklist with the deadlines that matter, grouped into what's urgent and what can quietly wait.
Let us draft the hard parts
Notification letters and phone scripts, personalized to your loved one and ready to send or read aloud.
Move at your own pace
Everything saves as you go. Come back tomorrow, next week, or whenever you have the strength.
Everything the after asks of you, in one calm place
Not another dashboard of buttons — a companion that carries the load with you.
Guided intake
A warm conversation that gently learns your situation and builds your plan — no jargon, no pressure.
Your plan & deadlines
A prioritized checklist with the dates that actually matter, so nothing important slips by while you grieve.
Letters & phone scripts
Drafted for banks, benefits, utilities, and more — personalized, and ready to send or read aloud.
Document vault
Keep the death certificate, will, and IDs in one safe place, ready to attach wherever they're needed.
Who to notify
A directory of institutions — what each one needs from you, and how to reach a real person.
A companion, always
Ask anything, anytime. It remembers your situation, so you never have to explain from the start again.
For every kind of loss, and every kind of family
A spouse or a parent. A child, a sibling, a dearest friend. A partner the paperwork doesn’t always recognize, but your heart does. The After adapts to your relationship, your beliefs, and where you live — and never assumes who you are or what your loved one meant to you.
Yours, and only yours
Your information is private to you. Share nothing you don’t want to, and export or permanently delete everything at any time. There is no rush, and no one looking over your shoulder.
Whenever you’re ready. There’s no rush.
Start with a single, gentle conversation. You can stop any time, and everything will be here when you come back.